Lately I’ve been having a lot of conversations about what it means to be a responsible digital citizen. From hardcover books to articles published by the New York Times, you’ve probably noticed at least some of the ink given to the topic.
Statistics about Generation Z are alarming, especially the fact that overall measures of happiness are plummeting. A 2016 survey from Common Sense Media found that 78% of teens check their devices at least hourly. This obsessive behavior disturbs daily activities, creating patterns similar to substance abuse.
But when should adult media habits enter the discussion? We are all guilty of minor offenses like checking a quick work email while listening to a story about playground drama on up to major infractions like texting at a stop light — or even while operating a moving vehicle.
The old adage “do as I say, not as I do” is not going to cut it. Like it or not, you are your child’s number one role model when it comes to technology. Nothing will change until we acknowledge our personal struggles to tame the 24-7 stream of news, work, and entertainment. We are always connected.
We declare that mobile devices no longer own us. Our children are more important than (time-sucking) social media feeds. Our spouses deserve more attention than (fake) news. And our pets are far more entertaining than (most) YouTube cat videos.
We are done stressing about internet speed. Moving forward our focus will be connecting in person with family and friends, and we will fight the urge to live inside our smartphones. Standing strong against FOMO, we choose to lay down our devices and live in the moment.
What do you think? Would you be willing to commit to any or all of the following restrictions?
• Making first 10 minutes and last 30 minutes of every day device-free.
• Refusing to text/email while driving, even at stop lights.
• Calling people on special occasions instead of sending a quick text or social media post.
• Silencing devices while socializing with other human beings.
• Leaving home without a device for a minimum of 20 minutes each week.
Join us on Facebook to brainstorm ideas for our manifesto. We can’t wait to hear what’s on your mind!
Until Next Time,